Saturday, February 23, 2013

Blog Review: Firstthings.com

So. If you were wondering, Family Life Educators also review others' content to make sure that its appropriate for us to use in our classes and as personal resources. Well, this is one of those times that I'm going to tell you, 1) how well this blog will meet your needs as a parent, teen or mentor, 2) how well the blog aligns with current research, 3) how well you can use this blog in your life (basically, "is this blog applicable to transitioning into adulthood?") and 4) if you might like the authors that contribute to the blog.

The authors of firsthings.com post this in their masthead: "First Things is published by The Institute on Religion and Public Life, an interreligious, nonpartisan research and education institute whose purpose is to advance a religiously informed public philosophy for the ordering of society." 

I think right off the bat, I was intimidated by the fact that they call themselves a "interreglious, non partisan research and education institute." I mean, religion and partisan are all terms that have heave connotations in our society, but, at the same time, I think this resource is important. As a family life educator, I want you to know that there are multiple avenues to seek advice and direction for transitioning an individual into adulthood. And that could mean that an interreligious (which basically means that they do not specify a denomination, but focus on core issues) and nonpartisan (meaning: they are not part of a political party) education and research institution. All this to say: they are going to be biased towards, possibly, more conservative matters, but the topics they have about adulthood or transitioning to adulthood are interesting. Some article titles they have are: "Delayed adulthood and decade analysis," "Parents: let your teens be adults," and others. So as parent, teen, or mentor: on a scale of 1-10, I think this blog is about a 6 in usability.

The research aspect of the blog is pretty solid. The authors base a lot of their main articles from research or reactions to books they've read--so very much like this blog that you are browsing now. They react to the articles and books they have read, etc. In this portion, I would rate about an 8/10 in research content.

As for the applicability of the blog: its a little spotty. They do address a lot about young-adulthood and some rough-around-the-edges topics about adulthood, however, they do not talk about if these ideas are good necessarily or how you can advise parents, etc. in the matter. Application of this site: 4/10

With that being said, I thought the writing styles of the authors that I read articles from were dry. It seems like they kept their blog posts down to a page (or less) and needed to keep the message as short ast possible but get all the information they wanted across. Which is good, when there is SO much material for individuals to sift through, it is best to keep things short and sweet. However, this also means that they do not have much fluff or add-in's about reality. 1/10 in this area.

In all: the average score for this website would be 4.75/10. Below passing, but I hope you'll at least give the site a chance and let me know what you think! (And to make things easy: here's a link! First Things website) ~~Rebecca M. Jenn

Parenting Styles and Attachments and their Affect on Transitioning Adults

PARENTING STYLES AND ATTACHMENTS AND THEIR AFFECT ON TRANSITIONING ADULTS

I found a really interesting study conducted by the University of Central Florida and found it helpful to me when considering the transition to adulthood for both the parents of the rising adult and the adult experience the transition.

THE STUDY:

The study was conducted by Kimberly Renk, PhD, Jenny Klein and Angela Rojas-Vilches.  The responses of college student participants who were in the process of transitioning through emerging adulthood were examined so that the relationships among the characteristics of their families, their relationships with their parents, the perceptions that they hold currently about their parents, and their current functioning could be described. Results of this study suggested that particular characteristics of
families are related highly to characteristics of the parent-adult child relationship during emerging adulthood. Further, the findings of this study suggested that different outcomes for adult children during emerging adulthood were predicted by characteristics of the parent-adult child relationship.

Parenting Styles:

Authoritarian- low on emotional warmth and nurturing but high on parental direction and control
Authoritative- warm, firm, and fiar, combines emotional nurturing and support with conscientious parental direction without excessive control
Permissive- gives little parental guidance

WHAT WE LEARNED:

The study is very elaborate and detailed but I boiled it down to a few specific findings that can be helpful when examining a transition to adulthood and how those new adults form relationships with their parents.  The first finding was that attachment predicted positively and authoritativeness predicted negatively levels of regard for mothers, whereas emotional involvement and authoritativeness
predicted negatively levels of regard for fathers. (Renk, 97)  We learn that attachment between parents and their children was predictive of characteristics of the mother-adult child relationship.  The attachment between children and their fathers did not show any predictive characteristics as did the mother.  High levels of authoritative styles of parenting as well as comfort and nurturing led to better relationships between the transitioning adult and the parent.

Taking a broader look at this study and what it can tell us about young adults transitioning is that characteristics of our family as youth and adolescents has a direct impact on how our relationships with our parents will be.  The findings of the study can help parents of adolescents that are soon to be transitioning into adulthood to see the importance of the way they parent their children and the characteristics that they display in the family.  The study had a positive correlation to each way a family's characteristics were displayed.  I am a 25 year old male that has been through most of the transition to adulthood if not all.  As one who has experienced it I can speak for all in this phase when I say that our relationship with our parents is paramount as we go through such a difficult time.  We depend on their experience and love.  Between this study and my own experience I can positively say that characteristics in a family that incorporate openness and an authoritative parenting style are the best way to create a healthy relationship for transitioning adults and their parents.  Parents, it's on you to create that environment!

Chase

Reference: http://dx.doi.org/10.1300/J194v03n02_06


Kimberly Renk PhD , Jenny Klein & Angela Rojas-Vilches (2005): Predictors of the
Characteristics of Parent-Adult Child Relationships and Adult Child Functioning in a College Student
Sample, Journal of Intergenerational Relationships, 3:2, 81-100

How Do Attachment Styles Affect Parent-Adult Child Relationships

I found a really interesting study conducted by the University of Central Florida and found it helpful to me when considering the transition to adulthood for both the parents of the rising adult and the adult experience the transition.

THE STUDY:

The study was conducted by Kimberly Renk, PhD, Jenny Klein and Angela Rojas-Vilches.  The responses of college student participants who were in the process of transitioning through emerging adulthood were examined so that the relationships among the characteristics of their families, their relationships with their parents, the perceptions that they hold currently about their parents, and their current functioning could be described. Results of this study suggested that particular characteristics of
families are related highly to characteristics of the parent-adult child relationship during emerging adulthood. Further, the findings of this study suggested that different outcomes for adult children during emerging adulthood were predicted by characteristics of the parent-adult child relationship.

Parenting Styles:

Authoritarian- low on emotional warmth and nurturing but high on parental direction and control
Authoritative- warm, firm, and fiar, combines emotional nurturing and support with conscientious parental direction without excessive control
Permissive- gives little parental guidance

WHAT WE LEARNED:

The study is very elaborate and detailed but I boiled it down to a few specific findings that can be helpful when examining a transition to adulthood and how those new adults form relationships with their parents.  The first finding was that attachment predicted positively and authoritativeness predicted negatively levels of regard for mothers, whereas emotional involvement and authoritativeness
predicted negatively levels of regard for fathers. (Renk, 97)  We learn that attachment between parents and their children was predictive of characteristics of the mother-adult child relationship.  The attachment between children and their fathers did not show any predictive characteristics as did the mother.  High levels of authoritative styles of parenting as well as comfort and nurturing led to better relationships between the transitioning adult and the parent.

Taking a broader look at this study and what it can tell us about young adults transitioning is that characteristics of our family as youth and adolescents has a direct impact on how our relationships with our parents will be.  The findings of the study can help parents of adolescents that are soon to be transitioning into adulthood to see the importance of the way they parent their children and the characteristics that they display in the family.  The study had a positive correlation to each way a family's characteristics were displayed.  I am a 25 year old male that has been through most of the transition to adulthood if not all.  As one who has experienced it I can speak for all in this phase when I say that our relationship with our parents is paramount as we go through such a difficult time.  We depend on their experience and love.  Between this study and my own experience I can positively say that characteristics in a family that incorporate openness and an authoritative parenting style are the best way to create a healthy relationship for transitioning adults and their parents.  Parents, it's on you to create that environment!

Reference: http://dx.doi.org/10.1300/J194v03n02_06


Kimberly Renk PhD , Jenny Klein & Angela Rojas-Vilches (2005): Predictors of the
Characteristics of Parent-Adult Child Relationships and Adult Child Functioning in a College Student
Sample, Journal of Intergenerational Relationships, 3:2, 81-100


Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Helping your child cope with real-life obstacles

How parents Can Help When Our Children Are Failing On Their Own

Eventually, young  people make their own way and with this new found independence comes challenges.  During this transition  period, parents are needed , but in a different way.  The role of parents changes from being a manager (imposing supervision) to becoming mentors (offering advice  when asked).  Mentoring needs to be a consensual and collaborative relationship, where by invitation only, parents help with problem solving, offer/share ideas, while staying objective.  As mentor's, your job is not to tell your growing children what to do, bail  them out of trouble, or to express disappointment/criticism, instead; a mentor's role involves listening sympathetically, advise if asked, and let  go of any responsibility for fixing whatever is wrong.  There is also a major drop in self-esteem during the "trial independence"period, and as a mentor, you need to let your young adult children know that mistakes are a foundation for learning throughout everyones life.  The most important thing to remember is:  Respect the young person's right to make their own decisions. 

There are various obstacles worth mentioning that every young adult encounters.  Such obstacles include missing  home and family, managing increased freedom, flunking  out of college, and unemployment.  All of these obstacles come with psychological challenges that make growing up hard and confusing.  In the following paragraph, I will discuss the four psychological challenges that make it difficult for young people to move past "missing home and family".

For older adolescents, moving away from home feels scary and complicated.  The first psychological challenge is the demands of change.  Getting used to any life change demands adjusting to the loss of the old  (family security) and engaging with the new (making your own decisions).  There are things parents can do to ease the anxieties of young people that are in the process of moving away from home.  First, young people need to know that they are remembered and thought of.   For example, parents can let children know that they remain in the family's minds and hearts by celebrating special occasions with them.  Second, young people need to know that their position in the family is secure, which include preserving their room and possessions.  Finally, young people need to know that they are always welcome back, continue to communicate with family, and still have access to family support.  When young people physically leave home, they haven't emotionally left home, so retaining that old place (room, possessions, etc) is an important way of letting them hold on.  The second psychological challenge is the lifestyle drop.  This is a good time for parents to share experiences of when they were young and starting out and also explain the importance of budgeting.  The third challenge is becoming homesick.  To work through homesickness, a young adult needs transitional support of parental communication, encouragement, a attention during the first year or so living away from home.  Believe it or not, the happy high school experience is the last challenge for young people trying to move away from home.  Students who's high school days were victorious in every way possible, have a harder time adjusting and sometimes crash during "trial independence".  This happens because young people feel a sense of diminished competency and worth.  To help young people get over this hurdle, parents can tell them, "If you did well for yourself in high school, that just shows you have what it takes to do well for yourself again" (Pickhardt, pg 52). 

As you can see, I've only touched the surface of the kinds of challenges young adults face as they deal with real-life situations.  I find the transition to adulthood interesting and beneficial because  I have two daughters that will be young adults in the near future.  I hope to expand on other obstacles such as managing increased freedom, flunking out of college, and unemployment in our workshop.     

Pickhardt, Carl, PhD. Boomerang Kids.  Sourcebooks, Illinois.  2011.

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Teaching Young Adults Resilience as they Transition into Adulthood

Teaching Young Adults Resilience as they Transition into Adulthood: by Shirley

The transitioning years are those years between the ages of 18 to 30 years old (Burt & Paysnick 2012). This age groups is on the pathway of become more self-sufficient and not relying on their parents for support, resources and care. 

What is resilience? Resilience is the personal and environmental resources that help a person to overcome life’s challenges. Or as we often hear it referred to “bouncing back.” A person has to face challenges and problems that are “significant” in order to show resilience. 

Much of what emerging adults experience is related to cultural and societal influences. What can a parent do to help? First of all as parents we need to be patient and show unconditional love for our children. (Remember that you can love your child and not like some of the choices that they are making). Second we need to give your emerging adult chances for success. Research has shown that some of the things that help young adults are changes in friendships, living arrangements, getting an education, a stable job or career and separation from dysfunctional relationships (Burt & Paysnick 2012). It is interesting to note that children growing up in a advantaged neighborhood and had high cognitive abilities were about three times more likely to be classified as resilient than those growing up in the same neighborhood without high cognitive abilities (Burt & Paysnick 2012). 
How Parents Can Help:
To help your teen transition into adulthood a parent needs to allow an increased amount of autonomy and independence while still offering positive and consistent support. There is no single right way to help your youth transition into adulthood, however it has been found that those teens that have self-efficacy and a drive for mastery seem to weather the trials of life with more grace and resilience. They do not define themselves by the challenges that they may face either (Burt & Paysnick 2012).
Parents can help their young adults by encouraging health friendships and relationship. Those of a positive adult mentor will also help the emerging adult. Parents with a positive relationship with their children are better able to influence successful outcomes. 
Bouncing Back:
A young adult who does not have to face the challenge of poverty, or serious life challenges also fair better than those who do face those challenges. It is interesting to note that young adults with high cognitive abilities, set goals, have a personality that is high in emotional stability and receive positive parenting do better during this developmental period. On a lighter note in a study done on at-risk teens in Hawaii found that most of those who faced challenges were able to “bounce back” by the fourth decade. While these findings many seem tough it can also give us hope in the future (Burt & Paysnick  2012). 

References:
Burt, K. B., & Paysnick, A. A. (2012). Resilience in the transition to adulthood. Development and Psychopathology, 24(02), 493-505.

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Civic engagement: a Culture to transition into adulthood by Rebecca


Introduction to Civic Engagement:

Constance Flanagan and Peter Levine (2010) are two researchers that explored civil engagement among college and non-college students. Civil engagement is "the form of joining community groups, volunteering to help neighbors,... leading grassroots efforts to gain civil rights" as well as other politically and socially active forms of engagement in the community (p. 160). However, Flanagan and Levine (2010) as well as other researchers have observed a decline in civil engagement in ten important ways: "belonging to at least one group attending religious services at least monthly, belonging to a union, reading newspapers at least once a week, voting, being contacted by a political part, working on a community project, attending club meetings, and believing that people are trustworthy" (p. 161). However, one area that researchers have observed no decline in is volunteering. All of these areas, then are the focus of researchers on asking youth transitioning to adulthood about their civil engagement.

Importance of Civic Engagement:

Now one question that I would also like to answer before I continue is "Why is civil engagement important?"According to Flanagan and Levine (2010) civic engagement "is important to the health and performance of democracy" (p. 160). I agree with this importance because, as free citizens of the United States, we need to make our voices heard and the problems in our communities known to politicians and policy makers. The Civil Rights Movement is a good example of this: the Jim Crow laws, Martin Luther King Jr., Malcolm X and others engaged in Civil Engagement in order to gain institutional rights for blacks. Although the U.S. isn't perfect with its racist undertones and overtures in media and culture, we have come a long way compared to what things looked like in the 20th century. 

College students and colleges in Civil Engagement: 

With that aside, allow me to focus on the college student: in this portion I hope to elaborate the importance that Flanagan and Levine (2010) address in students' involvement in community service projects as well as other volunteer groups on campus. On the other hand, if you are trying to find out more about civil engagement for non-college attending individuals, then I would suggest that you move past this portion and go to "Civil Engagement without going to college: Its possible!" 

For college students, Flanagan and Levine (2010) observed they were much more likely to be involved in community programs: but that was because colleges are also more likely to have a large variety of courses and extracurricular activities. On top of the offering of opportunities to be involved with civil engagement, "most colleges and universities [in their mission statements] contain some references to the civic preparation of younger generations" (p. 169). 

So if you can invest in going to college: I would definitely get involved with any college campus group that will encourage civil engagement. As a matter of fact: volunteer projects and leadership positions in any organization will look great on resumes and graduate school applications. It shows that you were willing to invest time into the public community and balanced your time will with school, volunteering, family, etc. 

But civil engagement is not limited to just volunteering in the community, other aspects of civil engagement include "political discussion and debate on campus, courses that impart civic skills, student-produced news media, internships and study-abroad opportunities, and events and exhibitions meant to serve communities" (p. 169). In other words, there are tons of opportunities to become more globally aware, politically active and understand that you can have an impact on your community!


Civil Engagement without going to college: Its possible!

So for you non-college attendees: its OK! I just want to let you know that, because I know that life is hard, but it is also what you make of it, if you want to still want to learn, you can! There are tons of opportunities that Flanagan and Levine (2010) talk about for you! 

For one, there is a bill that was signed by President Obama: It is called "the Edward M. Kennedy Serve America Act" which basically addresses "several issues concerning civic engagement and the prolonged transition to adulthood" (p. 174). Unpacked, some of those "issues concerning civic engagement" include what kind of civic engagement AmeriCorps members can participate in, adding the number of slots available, as well as benefits gained from being in the Corps, and where you will be stationed. Location depends on which organization you join, but you can still be close to family and serve the community that you are familiar with. Another few factors that are addressed in the act include incorporating marginalized youth into the AmeriCorps ranks, "[adding] new corps to address America's most pressing needs in health care, education, the environment, emergency preparedness and public service" (p. 174). In other words, the Edward M. Kennedy Serve America Act added many benefits and services to the corps. 

Also, if you do decide to serve with the Corps you can receive $5,350 (this is almost the same amount as a Pell grant would be), which can be used in a wider range of institutions compared to before (Flanagan and Levine, 2010, p. 174). 

For the Educator and Mentor: Encouraging your student to become part of volunteer services in their church, community and school is one of the best ways you can help them. Flanagan and Levine (2010) report, "becoming a stakeholder in one's society develops through the accumulated opportunities to be involved in groups and build civic identities and skills" (P. 166). Although there are many disparities in resources and availability to lower income communities, there are plenty of ways to get these youth involved and thinking critically about how to become involved in their community to change the lives of their children and community. Being involved with a program like AmeriCorps or Youth Corps also encouraged individuals in disadvantaged populations in thinking about education, employment (they were more likely to be in the public sector), they also had more personal responsibility, and intentions to vote (Flanagan and Levine, p. 173). 

Benefits of Civic Engagement:

Specific benefits of Civic Engagement are:
~ “Fulfillment of the human need to belong” (p. 161)
~ “Feel that life has a purpose beyond the pursuit of individual gain” (p. 161)
~ They become a contributing citizen
~ More likely to pass on this trait to their children (p. 166)
~ More likely to serve in the public sector (p. 173)
~ Reconsideration of vocational priorities (if volunteered in high school; p. 168)
~ May allow youth to slow down the pace of finding “the right job” (p. 168)

These are but a few that Flanagan and Levine (2010) illustrate throughout their paper. The overall message is this: volunteering is beneficial socially, psychologically, and especially towards maturity as an adult.

Where you can get involved (specifically): 
As stated before, AmeriCorps “is a federal funding stream for several large programs… whose members devote a year to service through local community organizations and institutions. Participants… provide service in exchange for a modest living stipend (enough to cover living expenses for most participants) and an educational reward” (p. 172). In other words, Americorps, with all of its branches is a great opportunity to support yourself and also get your education paid for (even though it may not cover it fully).

Another opportunity is the military: Flanagan and Levine (2010) observed in their literature review that veterans were also more likely to engage in civic participation in times of peace. Although medic or combat servicemen and women are less likely to engage in civic engagement, those that participated in “planning reconstruction and relief programs and canvassing residents’ needs that could provide civic skills back home [in the U.S.]” (p. 171). In other words, those that served in civilian areas overseas were also more likely to participate in civil engagement here in the U.S. Being in the military also created a confidence and leadership in their community.

The third and last way that I can suggest to get involved is with a labor union: Flanagan and Levine (2010) explain that labor unions are increasingly becoming utilized by college-educated individuals instead of the non-college-educated (p. 165). However, in “the 1970’s… almost 14 percent of young adults without college experience belonged to unions, which promoted voting, leadership skills and issue discussion among their members” (p. 165). And this can still be true among non-college-educated youth today: the labor union is a perfect way to get involved while receiving mentorship and encouragement to be active politically and in the community.

A list of other areas of involvement:
            ~Religions institutions
            ~Reading the newspaper for social information
            ~Become educated about national and public politics
            ~Vote
            ~(And the list of other “civic engagement” activities listed in the introduction.)

 Conclusion:

Well that's the culture of civic engagement and how it benefits the transition adulthood. I hope you can apply this tor your life in a beneficial way to your community. ~~Rebecca M. Jenn

Reference:
Flanagan, C. & Levine, P. (2010). Civic Engagement and the Transition to adulthood. The Future of Children. 20 (1),159-179. Retrieved Feb 15 2013 from Project Muse. http://muse.jhu.edu/journals/foc/summary/v020/20.1 .flanagan.html